Cathy Tompkins

I’ve been reflecting on comments made recently in the class I teach, The Introduction to the Neurosequential Model for Caregivers. Dr. Perry describes, what he calls, the Intimacy Barrier. It seems to be similar to what we’ve long called ambivalence in a child’s experience of their connection to their caregiver(s). The story that set me... Read More

How should we navigate public situations when a total stranger approaches to ask about the racial composition of our families? I’m gonna do my best but every bone in my body just wants to firmly state, if not yell, “What makes that any of your business?” I am inspired to explore how many in American... Read More

I offer a trigger warning today as I’m going to get specific about what I usually just call chronic childhood trauma. I encourage you to take any steps that help you hear sad or shocking information without ruining your day. Please. Most of us spend a bit of energy protecting ourselves from stories like these... Read More